Spiritual Family Enmeshment…
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I hope no one ends up in ‘ungodly soul ties’. You could loose ‘life’ in it. I have written quite a bit on 'Family Enmeshment'. I thought topic deserved one last look. Family Enmeshment is a destructive force of the nature. If left untreated, it carries potential to end 'family tree'. I, truly believe, my life has been seriously engulfed by it.
‘Family Enmeshment’ is a dysfunctional family dynamic characterized by weak or nonexistent boundaries, resulting in emotional entanglement, lack of individual autonomy, and excessive interdependency. Family members, particularly parents and children, often share emotions, roles, and personal space, making it difficult to maintain a separate identity or independence. It is often mistaken for closeness, but it is driven by a need for control, often resulting in guilt-driven obligations.
According to psychics, people with destiny '9' suffer from 'FE'.
Newborn's ‘day of birth, life path and destiny get defined @birth'. Child has no control over it. This makes 'FE @birth spiritual'. We don’t choose family. It can get hard to break out of 'FE' as it got defined in the 'spiritual realm'. Can ‘spiritual family enmeshment be soul ties or karmic debt?’
If 'birth soul ties' are real then you could go through life and not get ‘nowhere'.
I moved to the USA 100,000 year ago😁but ‘FE’ has always found a way to stay with me. ‘FE’ should have ended for me (3) decades ago. Anytime, an opportunity presented itself for ‘FE’ to end, it got lost. ‘Angel messages’ circle around ‘soul and desires of the heart’. I believe ‘FE’ has prevented ‘desires’ to materialize in my life ‘multiple times’. I have discussed my 'life story' in many blogs before. In short,
My move to USA didn’t end 'FE'.
My 1st move to California can be attributed to 'FE'. I was doing fine in my job and relationship. Why would I end up in a place when I didn't want to go?
My move back to New England did not end 'FE'.
My relationship breakup in 2012 can be attributed to 'FE'. This was my 2nd attempt to get out of it.
My 'spiritual awakening' in 2017 can also be attributed to 'FE'. My move to California would have ended ‘FE' but an 'unknown force' intervened. I didn't disagree with the teachings of 'awakening'. I dropped the idea of California, and in stead, focused on building life in New England. I let 'the past go'. I started new cycle on a 'new career path(s)'. I built this website (heart based service) based on the 'repeat numbers I experienced as part of the awakening'.
I can think of (3) opportunities in the past (6) years where my life could have changed but doors were shut the moment I (my thoughts) decided to pursue them. This all can be attributed to 'FE'.
I thought 'start of spiritual awakening and new cycle of life on new path would end family enmeshment'. This would also put me on 'the path of growth and expansion (spiritual and personal (angel message 222))' but 'personal part' is yet to happen. My ‘spiritual awakening' took me into the world of 'palmistry, astrology numerology and angel numbers'. It exposed me to 'life path, destiny, soul's purpose (higher calling) and mission'. It even brought my attention to issues like 'FE'.
Most content on the 'internet' talks about separation from ‘the family'.
Universe understands ‘thoughts create reality’. What if it uses it for ‘individual thoughts from turning into reality while keeping 'FE' the same'? ‘Pre or post spiritual awakening’ doesn't change it. During ‘pre spiritual awakening’, 'it used people or 'soul experiences to keep 'FE' the same’. ‘Post spiritual awakening’, ‘universe and an individual interact (1:1) through repeat numeric patterns but life does not change''. While person gets stuck, ‘the world’ moves on.
Where do you go from here?
Spirituality will always be part of my life but
Stay on ‘current path’ and do another ‘123’
Go back
Disappear
I am an educated, intelligent person. I should have had a 'normal life'. In stead, 'my life' went as per the predictions of 'astrologers, numerologists and palm readers' even when I didn’t take 'standard career path of life path 3'. I didn’t know a anything about 'destiny'. It's hard to pinpoint this ‘unknown force’ but it has used my 'day of birth', life path 3 and destiny 3/9) to 'control' my life.
The conundrum I struggle with is ‘if a person can be an effective 'spiritual leader' leaving family behind even if it isn’t a 'prefect family''? I believe in healthy boundaries in all relationships (including family).
Most people encounter ‘family separation’ @the age of 18. In case if it doesn't happen, family should look into it. 'Spiritual FE' is different. It could get challenging! Someone architected family like that. It'll fight to keep it that way for reasons that may be out of the understanding of a 'common man'.
How Does Universe Accomplish 'Long Term FE'?
By selecting 'day of birth, life path. destiny and alignment of the stars’. I was born on March 29th (Aries) with life path of (3) and destiny of (3). Soon after birth, I experienced a 'name change'. This was done in consultations with 'spiritual leader'. My 'name change' signaled a different 'destiny (9)'.
There are arguments as to if 'destiny gets altered through name change?’ I tend to agree with authors of the book 'Numerology: The Key To Inner Self' by Hans Decoz and Tom Monte. According to the book, a name change done properly can introduce 'elements of new destiny' into the life. This would make me 'life path (3) and destiny 3/9)'.
Life path (3) = 'creative communication'. Destiny (3) = 'to inspire, motivate, heal and uplift people'. Destiny (9) = 'to reach higher state of consciousness and help others achieve spiritual awareness'. My day of birth (March 29th) points 'to connection with higher forces (spiritual awakening)'.
Life Path (3) is for ‘artists and teachers’. It does not fall into the ‘standard 9-5 jobs category’. Most artists are known to suffer financial hardships unless one is born into 'rich family'. I should have had long and successful career based on my education. Although I didn't choose 'path of an artist or teacher', I’ve had my share of financial challenges with ‘constant job loss and career being cut short' which is explained by ‘my day of birth’
I have signs on the palms of both of my hands (mark 'M and crescent moon'). They point to 'preset destiny'. My life, except for one thing, has gone as per the predictions of a palm reader and writings of numerology.
Most people don't know they have 'destiny'. Something happens to them and they become 'aware' of it. This is where 'spiritual awakening' comes into play. 'Spiritual awakening' happens after a tragic loss and becomes 'agent for path to destiny'.
I have also had 'multiple relationship breakups'. If I had 'long career or relationship success', I’d have left 'FE' back long time ago.
The Chosen Ones:
People with 'preset destiny' can be referred to as 'the chosen ones'. The 'chosen' are not special. It's just their life has a 'higher purpose'. I have devoted an 'entire blog on the chosen ones'. I won't repeat any of that information here.
Once 'the chosen discover destiny = higher purpose', they have to pursue it. If past career becomes ‘hurdle in path of destiny' (I know this personally😁), they are supposed to discad it.
What happens if you do as 'guided' but ‘outcome is not as expected’?
Do you 'go back' or 'disappear'?
Going back doesn't make sense. For example, I have already lived through 'life cycle of 9-5 jobs and suffered 2 relationship breakups pre spiritual awakening’. ‘Moving forward’ made sense but 'the forward path (spiritual) has not panned out as expected yet'.
With age (45-50+), most college type career options close on you. Starting ‘business’ needs ‘initial capitol’. ‘Chosen ones’ don’t have money. Even if one ‘could find something’, would life be the same as between 25-55? It won't.
I’ve (3) life options in front of me. All require major 'compromise/ sacrifice'.
I shouldn't be dealing with this right now. It should have been resolved (3) years ‘past spiritual awakening’. Someone who lose 40-50 years of life ‘pre awakening’, do they have (8) years for figuring things out?
Final Comments:
Breaking out of 'Spiritual FE' is not easy. The universe can keep person in 'FE' a long time by not giving them 'path of stable career'. Another way to break out of 'FE is marriage'. The universe controls that too by 'not letting any relationship stabilize'. The universe knows 'thoughts create reality'. By 'monitoring thoughts, it can control life'!
For 'destiny 9' people, it’ll feel like 'universe' is against you. For example, if 'day of birth, life path and destiny' define life, my 'spiritual awakening' should have coincided with 1st move to California almost (3) decades ago. In stead of moving to California, I would have worked with 'my short lived career (march 29th) option' and transitioned into 'right career with heart based service in time' and built a 'normal life' OR I could have had 'spiritual awakening' 4 years later on my return from California.
I could have had 'spiritual awakening' in 2012 when ‘my life began to unravel'. That would have helped too. By delaying 'awakening until 2017' was 'universe' trying to keep 'FE' a long time in my life? 'Spiritual awakening' in 2017 was (2) decades late. What's more surprising is 'following awakening post 2017 has not changed 'FE''. Loss of '3' decades has made everything lot more harder.
If things don't go 'as planned' for reasons like ‘past life karmic debts, soul ties or some out of control factors’ then there is not much one can do but to understand them and try 'fix them'. If ‘fix’ does not work out, you still have to find way to move on with life. Time and life don't wait for anyone.
Final Comments:
Life is not easy (chosen or not). We have to search for the right answers. My ‘awakening’ may have happened in 2017 but ‘the universe has been following my life since I was born'. I learnt through ‘spirituality, thoughts create reality and yet my thoughts have not turned into reality yet’🤔
It could be because ‘I had a higher purpose (destiny)'. The universe ‘controls timing of the spiritual awakening like everything else'. What if you reach ‘your destiny as described in the pseudoscience but then universe changes (destiny) itself'?
I feel, if my awakening' was about 'letting go of the past and start new cycle of life on a new path and open a heart based service', I had accomplished that by 2011. My life should have changed in 2019, 2022 and 2025 but it did not. In stead, it's becoming 'new 123' as 'FE' has continued to remain the same🤔
'FE is a nasty loop'. Psychics (and others) warn about it. They tell you to get out of it.
We don’t control everything. It’s important you understand it and don’t doubt yourself. There's nothing worse than ‘2nd guessing yourself’. Unfortunately, ‘doubting oneself’ is part of ‘spiritual awakening’. I have made all the right choices (in this life) but ‘end result’ has been different than what I had expected. But, then, things can always change.
‘Spiritual Awakening’ is different for different people. It depends on the timing too. Your new life in 40s or 50s won’t be the same as in 20s. 'You just start over’. It depends on how quickly (and if) you can find the ‘new path’ to support yourself and your family. That’s a crucial part of this puzzle..
‘Cycles Of The Universe’:
I was in ‘cycle of constant new jobs and relationship breakups for first 6 cycles of life’. That did not end well. After ‘awakening ’, I let ‘the past go’ and started ‘new cycle’ on new path(s) (career and spiritual). After ‘8’ years and (3) opportunities lost, I am looking @‘a new start 123 with ‘FE’ is the same’’. Getting to ‘destiny’ has not changed it yet.
This is Life Path/destiny ‘3/9’ —> Multiple openings/closings and ‘Family Enmeshment’ (new experiences for ‘the soul’ while person may not go anywhere) 🤔😀 The universe has been a ‘clear winner’ so far imposing it’s ‘Will on my life plans’.
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